Tonight at our church, my husband & I are talking about sex. We’re splitting the audience so he’ll take the guys & I’ll take the chicks. For some quick insight, I HATE talking about this subject. In high school, I scheduled all of my orthodontist appointments to happen during the human sexuality class. Nevertheless, it’s a really important topic and the society in which I live seems to be more & more hyper-sexual.
As I’ve been thinking about what to say, I’ve found it really encouraging that the Bible is not mute on this topic. In fact, it has lots to say about it & you might consider looking into a few of the following references for some reflection: Leviticus 18, Matt 5:27-29, Rom 1:21-32, 1 Cor 6:12-20 & 1 Cor 7:1-5
Of course I could turn this particular post into something steamy & controversial, but I’d prefer to let the Bible do the talking for me on this topic. Of course you are very free & entirely accurate to call me chicken 🙂
Or you can come tonight & get more details ,)
I’ve never been one to watch wrestling – even in my teenage tv watching years i couldn’t get into it. Be that as it may, one of my fav Bible stories is with Jacob & him wrestling with God in Gen 32:22-31. I totally love this story because its very confrontational & has so many good life lessons. Here are a few things that stand out to me:
- Jacob wrestled alone: no one helped him, came to his rescue or even cheered for him. This wrestling match was between God & Jacob. There will be times when God will (or has) invite(d) you to wrestle through a problem with Him, by yourself. Don’t try to get other people to join your cause – wrestling is a one-on-one sport.
- Jacob wrestled in the dark: he couldn’t see well, possibly lost his bearings from time to time & couldn’t really tell what was going on around him. Sometimes when we wrestle w God, we can’t really see what’s going on – uncertain future, obscure present, unclear direction, etc.
- Jacob left this experience w a limp. Whenever you wrestle w God, expect to be changed. Infinite will always overcome finite.
- Jacob didn’t let go, even when his hip was wrenched. There are times when we want to quit on God, walk away, drop out of church, unplug & disconnect from Him – especially when we’re in a wrestling season w God. But these are the exact times when we need to hold onto Him the most.
There are lots of thoughts & insights about Jacob’s wrestling match w God – care to share any of your insights? 🙂
Can i just say that i’m completely amazed by God & here are some reasons i am continually discovering that increase the amazement factor:
- God knows me really well – He totally gets how i think, even better than me
- provision – God gives me what i need, when i need it (often not earlier); either He provides the actual resources or the wisdom to match the need. Astounding
- Trinity – there’s enough w just this one word to keep my brain fully engaged until i die & better than that, enough of the Trinity to sustain, fuel & even overwhelm my heart, brokenness & inadequacy
- darkness cannot hide from light, no matter how hard it tries
Another reason i’m amazed w God is from what Jesus tells us in Matt 6:22-23: our eye is the lamp of our body & if our eye is clear, then we will be filled w light. If our eye is bad, then our body is full of darkness & that’s ALOT of darkness. So let’s consider some things we may use as “light” to illuminate our daily living (read through all of these to get the gist):
- if your light is food, then possibly fasting is darkness
- if your light is sex, then abstinence is darkness
- if your light is wealth, then poverty is your darkness
- if your light is education, then ignorance is your darkness
- if your light is relationships, then alone is your darkness
- if your light is your self, then maybe an empty heart is your darkness
While this list isn’t comprehensive & none of these things are bad by themselves, they become darkness for us, if we allow them to be a core value or motivation in our daily living. Let’s be sure that Jesus, the Light of the world, is THE Light who illuminates the entirety of our lives for each day.
This is a crazy time for investments, of particular interest is the stock market over the last 6-9 months! Yowzer!! The stock market can be very unsettling if you’ve invested in it over the years & were relying on it to provide finances for you now! OUCH!
Investment is deciding to not consume something now but rather to set it aside, so that it will be available to be useful in the future (hopefully, to have grown). Investment kind of flies in the thinking of modern conventional thinking – to our own demise. From a macro-scopic viewpoint, I think that we rarely consider investments from an eternal point of view, even though Jesus encouraged us to do this in Matt 6:1-21. In these verses, Jesus basically identifies 3 resources all of us have at least a little bit of – money, relationships & appetites / desires (energy). Some personal questions He asks us to consider:
- what are we doing with these resources?
- have we considered these resources from the viewpoint of eternity?
- will we have any resources / investments set aside & ready for us when we cross over into eternity?
In Matt 6:21, Jesus says that where our treasure is, you’ll find our heart there. Something interesting to consider in connection with not only our finances, but our relationship w God & our appetites & energy.
Can you pls leave a comment w some ideas on how you can use your money, relationship w God & energy (appetites) for investments in eternity?
Have you ever tried to fast, from a spiritual premise, only to feel like you failed? One time, i was fasting & there was a point where i hit the wall & just didn’t sense any life – it was more than just being physically difficult. it was like i hit a dead end. i tried to power through it, but after a few days, i just felt drained, empty & lifeless. i came to the conclusion that God’s grace had lifted from the fast & that He intended me to finish my fast, but i was trying to “power on” without His grace or help. Consequently, my efforts were flat, futile & even energy draining. big learning from that mistake.
I’m giving you this example because i’d like you to share about your fasting failure(s), so we can hopefully learn from each other & not repeat someone else’s mistakes. honesty will make this invaluable for both you & others. 🙂
Continued from yesterday:
NOW: What does “fast” mean to us today? Definition – adj: to move quickly; noun / verb: to abstain or refrain from (food)
The original meaning was “hold firmly,” & the sense evolving is via “firm control of oneself”
hold tight – to one’s self / to another moving quickly
A godly inconvenience we impose voluntarily on ourselves
HOW: Matt 6:16-18
νηστεύητε: present indicating action in progress: Whenever ye may be fasting.
Do: check your motive – anoint your head and wash your face 18 so that your fasting will not be noticed by men (between you & God)
Don’t: 16 neglect your appearance (so that they will be noticed by men)
Fasting isn’t the goal, but rather a path to the goal – to be discussed next week
how can you integrate fasting into your life – to be embraced by your lifestyle?