I’ve made some really dumb mistakes in my life – one of which was overvaluing intelligence. I think it’s almost humorous that I would say that because I’m still a massive advocate for education probably because I love to learn. Nevertheless, here are a few things that could be more important than being intelligent:
*character & integrity – people who are smart but lack character & integrity can be extremely dangerous!
*compassion – intelligence without compassion is very cold & sterile
*hard work – this seems pretty self evident
*forgiveness – when we don’t forgive, our world becomes increasingly smaller & smaller
These are just a few things I’m learning in my journey 🙂
When i was growing up, i always wanted to be smart. i’ve always had LOTS of respect for smart people, even brilliant people. If the truth be known, i have probably idolized brains & intelligence. I married a REALLY smart man & only now am i coming to realize how smart he is , mostly through my kids. Isabell & David are presently wrapping up their 2nd and 1st grade school years, respectively. As such, they’ve done some of those nationalized / standardized tests from time to time throughout the year & they’ve done really well. Now i know that my husband is UBER brainy because my kids intellectual achievements & apptitudes are WAY BEYOND my abilities. They didn’t get all these brains from me – they got their intellectual abilities from their dad. Now i’m not saying i’m stupid, but i’m also quite clear on my limits.
In the past, this discovery would have made me feel inferior & insecure. But today, i’m quite happy w knowing this & i don’t have any qualms with this reality and here are 2 reasons why:
i’ve let Jer 9:23-4 become a central premise for my life: let not the wise, nor wealthy nor strong man boast in his wisdom, wealth or strength. but let him who boasts, boasts that he knows Me. My pursuit to be smart when i was younger has morphed into the desire & pursuit to know God. This principle has become the guiding foundation for me & my daily living.
Brains is not equal to good; intelligence, moral values and genuine “good” are not all the same thing. i know super brainy people who have been deeply wounded through life and consequently, while they’re still brainy, they’re also very hurtful because of the deep hurt in their hearts. While my kids may be uber smart, i pray that they would know Jesus’ love & have a deep & richly satisfying relationship w Jesus. Brains without compassion, a moral compass or love can be nothing more than accessorized pain & even tyranny.
Its good to be smart, but its even better to live in the pursuit of a deep & vivacious relationship w God